(Author not attributed) An African proverb states, “Before you get married, keep both eyes open; after you marry, close one eye.” Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don’t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open and […]
Source: 365 Gay.com Surfing the Net for gay porn? Spending half your day in Chat Rooms? You could be a Cyber-sex addict. A California sexologist says most of us surf for sex, but about 6.5% of male internet users are compulsive about it, so much so that Dr Al Cooper of the San Jose Marital […]
Source: 365Gay.com A study into bullying in British schools has found that boys as young as 9 frequently use anti-gay bullying “to establish their masculinity.” The research was done by Dr Emma Renold of Cardiff University, in Wales. She found that young boys often use the ‘gay’ and ‘girl’ as insults to other boys. Her report […]
Peter’s story contains a great many elements familiar to men who come to GAMMA. After twenty years of marriage and bringing up two children, he faced the inevitablity of separation from his wife although they had a good relationship. Now he is finding new directions. Peter’s Story
(Author not attributed) Why do so many of us have trouble finding out what we’re passionate about? I’m not talking about sexual heat or passionate relationships, although that excitement is certainly important. I’m thinking of passion in the broadest sense: an interest in life, in something beyond ourselves. Our society suffers from a sort of […]
(Author not attributed) Some gay men marry heterosexual partners because getting married is what we all learned is the ‘right’ thing to do. Our culture is geared toward heterosexual married relationships, and gay people, like their heterosexual brothers, want to fit in and do the right thing. Some Gay men who marry partners of the […]
Drew is another of our GAMMA men. As well as discussing his relations with his siblings, former wife, children and grandchildren, he speaks about the role GAMMA has played in his life. Drew’s Story
Steven is gay and was married. He tells the story of why he went down the path of marriage, how he later came out as a gay man, and about life with his current partner Jason. Steven’s Story
After reading this little gem you will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again. A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so difficult. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was […]
Over time, the age of desirability for gay men seems to get younger and younger. The age discrimination and lack of attention older or mature gay men receive is synonymous with the pressure some women feel to get married and have children by a certain age. Today, gay men are coming out at younger ages. […]
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